Saint Charles Borromeo

Today the Church celebrates the memorial of Saint Charles Borromeo. From 1564 to 1584 Saint Charles was archbishop of Milan, Italy. Much of his ministry was dedicated to making reforms in the Church. Saint Charles Borromeo was instrumental in the establishment of seminaries for the formation of priests. He is often considered the patron of bishops, seminaries, and spiritual directors. He is also invoked by people with stomach issues. 

In one of his sermons addressed to priests, he states, “Are you in charge of a parish? If so, do not neglect the parish of your own soul, do not give yourself to others so completely that you have nothing left for yourself. You have to be mindful of your people without becoming forgetful of yourself.”

In many ways, these words speak not just to priests but all of God’s faithful. 

Sometimes we can become so invested in a job, project, or relationship that we lose a sense of ourselves. What good are we for anyone if we do not seek balance in our lives and practice self-care? 

The isolation of the Pandemic has certainly provided time and space for introspection. How balanced are we in our work and relationships? Sometimes in our fears and anxieties, we can find refuge in investing ourselves in someone or something to the detriment of ourselves. 

As human beings we have to work hard to find that balance in our lives otherwise we can make our lives difficult and challenging not just for ourselves but for others. How do you find balance in your life? How do you remain balanced?

It is important to note that for Saint Charles Borromeo the key is found in prayer and meditation. In the same sermon, Saint Charles Borromeo states, “My brothers, you must realize that for us churchmen nothing is more necessary than meditation. We must meditate before, during, and after everything we do. The prophet says, ‘I will pray, and then I will understand’.”

My dear brothers and sisters, this time of pandemic is an opportune time for us to look at our individual selves and seek that proper balance through prayer and meditation. Taking time to slow down, to prayerfully behold our day, and examine our conscience can make such a positive difference in our lives. Some studies have suggested that people who consistently pray, lead healthier lives. 

I wish to conclude with a final quote from this beloved saint. “If we wish to make any progress in the service of God we must begin every day of our life with new eagerness. We must keep ourselves in the presence of God as much as possible and have no other view or end in all our actions but the divine honor.” Saint Charles Borromeo, pray for us!